Is absinence-only sex education effective?
Friday, August 31st, 2007The politically correct answer would be a resounding no. The kids are going to have sex anyway. Isn’t it better to instruct them in how to protect themselves if hormonal urges make it difficult to abstain?
It sounds reasonable, but let’s take a closer look. If we combine abstinence and protection in an educational program, aren’t we sending mixed and confusing messages? Also, are we not selling our children short, when we assume that raging hormones are more powerful than their determination to make the right choice?
The benefits of abstinence are well known. It doesn’t take a lot of education to descibe them. Avoidance of the risks of becoming pregnant, or contracting sexually transmitted diseases.Some of these are incurable, while others inhibit the possibility of having children later on.
Here, the protection people say they have the solution. It is the use of condoms. However, the unmentioned secret is that condoms are not completely effective. Estimates range from 80% to 90%. In addition, some STDs are passed on whether or not a condom is used.
Finally, one seldom mentioned benefit of abstinence is psychological.Sex is much more than physical, particularly for females. While it may be old fashioned for a girl to want to save herself for a future husband, it may make a lot of sense from a mental hralth viewpoint.
I am not sure how to answer the question at issue. Much depends on the content of the education and how it is presented. One thing for sure, we need to be completely truthful with kids or we lose.
Dick Brooks.
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